And little Petruchio, candidate of philological sciences, head of the department of Romance philology and mother of four children... “yes, it’s just dumb. Fourth child in the family Families with 4 children

When I have the imprudence to admit that I dream of a fourth child, many look at me so meaningfully and sadly that I seem to see them twirling their finger at their temple: “Well, aren’t you a fool? At least bring these guys to their senses!”
The Bible says: “The heritage of the Lord is children; the reward from Him is the fruit of the womb” [Ps. 126:3], and I have always believed that a child is a joy and a blessing. But I’m already beginning to doubt: maybe others are right, not me, and children in our time are really a great luxury that not everyone can afford? Perhaps three is already too much?

They frighten me from all sides: “What about feeding, clothing, and education?! This is what it means to “bring it to mind.” At least in our society. I nod my head in agreement and no longer dare to mention that, first of all, I am concerned about a completely different question.

All people, as you know, are different, and my children are no exception. Each child has his own character, interests and needs. Then, when they grow up, there will be personal sorrows, aspirations and failures that will be mine too. In the grand scheme of things, three isn't that many.

• But how can each of them become a faithful friend, a wise adviser, a cozy and reliable berth? How to understand and embrace their souls?
• How to accommodate yourself, an adult and already so far from childhood and youth, their first serious experiences, grievances, dreams? How not to push them away with harsh severity and not spoil them with excessive care?
• How to put noble truths into little hearts that will help them walk confidently and fearlessly through this life? How to protect gullible souls from the traps and temptations that abound in modern reality? How to raise them to be just good people?

“I wonder what she’s counting on?”- perhaps someone will think. Thank God, I have the right to rely on a faithful and loving Guardian who says: “Do not worry about the fact that you need food for life and clothing for your body. For life is more important than food and the body more important than clothing” [Luke. 12:22-23]. “Look how the lilies grow: they do not toil, they do not spin. But... Solomon himself, for all his splendor, did not dress like any of them. And if God clothes the grass of the field, which is there today and thrown into the oven tomorrow, then even more so, O you of little faith! And do not think about what you should eat or drink, and do not worry about it. Because... your Father knows that you have need... Strive for one thing - His Kingdom, and He will give you everything else in addition" [Luke. 12:27-32].

Isn't it a wonderful promise? But “in addition” does not mean that we should idly wait for God’s gifts. The times of manna from heaven are long gone, and even for this miracle, instead of gratitude, the Lord received only reproaches from the Israeli people.
Today we have to work very hard to be able to buy even the most necessary things. From morning to evening - work, children, household chores... Where is there any concern for spiritual values! They are mainly determined by the unsteady concepts of “possible” and “impossible”

. Financial concerns occupy a central place in our lives.. This is natural and quite It's clear. But, excuse me, human life does not come down to a sandwich with red caviar and branded sneakers! After all, there is a meaning, a purpose, joys and pleasures in it that do not lie in the quality of food, clothing, or even education!

Of course, it is very desirable to have all this in full, but a luxurious house and a bank account do not guarantee spiritual satisfaction. I think this is what Christ meant when he said: “Man shall not live by bread alone...” [Matt. 4:4]. Diogenes, for example, lived in a barrel and was quite happy. I am not calling for extremes, I just want to say that we should not make material well-being the cornerstone of our existence. It's not worth it.

In the end, the internal motives that guide people’s actions turn out to be much more valuable.. These are deep beliefs and moral standards instilled from childhood. But somehow I don’t hear from modern children the good old conversations about the sick dog they fed; or about a bosom friend with whom you can go to the ends of the world. What our children are concerned about today is not at all pleasing: “And my mother has a cooler mobile phone than yours!”, “We have DVDs, but you don’t!”, “They have two small rooms and a kitchen in their house.” . How can you live there?!”, “This girl is poor because she goes to school in the same sweater.”
I didn't make up any of these phrases.. It’s scary and painful for the young souls who, at such a tender age, are already so enslaved by “perishable and transitory things.” Is it because it is very valuable to us? After all, we, adults, meet people by their clothes, look for “connections” and put our work above family, because “we have to live somehow.” And the children see. And they study. And they imitate. And it turns out that what is important first of all is not the person, but what can be obtained from him; not the parents, as such, but the size of dad’s salary. And then suddenly it turns out that for the sake of money you can steal, deceive and even kill.

There are so many different promises of God in the Bible, but all that is required of a person is to believe and obey the Lord. He gives both the means to subsist and the wisdom to raise children so that they will truly be a reward and blessing for us.

When asked about the future of my family, I answer:“The Lord will provide,” the friends look away. They have a thousand arguments to defend their position, but I have only one. God does not know how to lie, He does not have such a habit. He always keeps his promises. And mothers of many children who trust Him know this better than anyone! Yes, others know too. After all, it was not in heaven, but on earth that they came up with the proverb: “God gave a child, he will give for a child.” I was convinced of this from my own experience and I know a lot of people who will confidently confirm this truth. Do you want to tell me?
When they said at the ultrasound that I was having twins, my husband was terrified. He exclaimed: “What if it’s girls? How can I provide for you all?!” I understood his feelings very well, since we already had a seven-year-old son, but I firmly answered: “The Lord will take care of it, because I pray about it.” “What if he doesn’t take care?!” - the husband asked in despair. What could I say? At that time, I had already learned to trust God and knew that He would not leave us without help and support.

And so it happened. Both we and the children live, in the language of our world, “no worse than others.”" But behind everything we have, I see the Father’s tender care. My dear husband has long since calmed down and now will not give up our girls and son for all earthly blessings. And what treasures can you pay for the happy smiles of mother and child?
I don't know if I convinced anyone. For me, the issue is not about sausage and bread and butter, and not even about higher education. Times may vary. Income too. But I know that God does not change or change. And this is written in His book: “Cast all your cares on Him, for He cares for you.” Sometimes the Lord performs real miracles if we invite Him to participate in our lives.
You know, families with many children usually do not have a palace, a car, or even a lot of money - no. But God is holy and true, and His promises are true. I am not afraid for the future of my children. After all, the point is not how much and what the Lord will give, but how much we trust Him.

With the advent of children, our life becomes... not quite ours. We begin to live more meaningfully and correctly, we become serious and caring. Someone completely devotes himself to household chores, while forgetting about himself, his husband and the rest of the world. Someone gets used to the role of a mother so much that, even after raising a child, they continue to take care of him endlessly.

I want to do two things. The first is to dispel the myth that a child is born only to be cared for, fed, treated and taught. You need to let him be himself, with just a little guidance and help until a certain time. And our unrealized dreams (I didn’t become a figure skater - let my daughter become) need to be left alone.

And second: to show that being a mother is not “horror, I can’t cope with one thing,” but great happiness! Of course, you need to work hard, organize yourself and always be on your toes. But happiness is worth it. I'm sure of this.

I want to help you gain self-confidence, be an energetic, slim, athletic mother. Become an example for your children in everything, learn to be their closest friend and at the same time maintain the line that should be present between children and parents. That is, respect has not been canceled! And in general, I am a supporter of regime and discipline, but in combination with my mother’s love and affection. Something like this.

Four children: why and how we cope

I am a financier by education. A few years ago, I was skipping up the career ladder of one of the banks, not imagining such an unexpected turn of fate and not at all planning to give birth to four. But! I always wanted to have children, even long before marriage. And definitely not one. In addition, I am an ardent opponent of abortion, so now and in the future I do not renounce it.

Where to start... I'll start from the end, that is, from the present time. Now we have two sons, 9 and 6 years old, and two one-and-a-half-year-old twin daughters. Would you say a lot? No. Paradoxically, with the advent of girls, my husband and I clearly understood: you can’t have too many children!

I will answer any questions you may have right away.

Yes, we are believers, but in moderation (that is, completely ordinary people trying to live in such a way that there is no shame), not to such an extent when faith overrides everything around, including living and financial conditions, and families live ten to fifty sq. m.

No, we are not going to give birth endlessly and “produce poverty,” but to the best of our ability we want to raise and raise children with dignity.

Interesting fact. Most people, when they meet our family or visit us, the first question they ask is how am I coping. Apparently, having four children suggests something incredible. But after a while they say: in the process of communication it seems to them that coping with children is so easy that they wouldn’t mind having four! Why? You will find the answers right now.

In order to establish a more or less decent existence for our “modest” family (we do not take the financial side of the issue into account, we proceed from the budget of the average family), the following conditions are needed, in my experience.

Routine or daily routine

This point is the first and perhaps the most important. And it doesn’t matter how many children you currently have. If you get used to the regime with one child, then with the advent of new children it will be much easier for you to organize yourself.

For example, our routine during the holidays is as follows:

7:00-7:15 rise, then morning routine, preparing breakfast.

8:00-8:30 breakfast.

Then football training for the older children, and free time for the little ones.

10:00-12:00 the kids sleep outside, at this time the boys return from training and... eat again

The little ones come back from the street and eat too.

After lunch everyone can play together.

At about 15 o'clock the boys sit down for homework (yes, homework during the holidays), and the little ones play by themselves in the playpen or with adults.

After 4 p.m., we put our daughters to bed again, but if it’s hot, it’s not outside, but at home, and the guys have a pool at that time. Before the pool and bedtime, everyone can have a snack again.

We return home after swimming at about 17:30, relax, eat again, take the girls and go for a walk together at 19:00. We walk until 20:30, and then have water treatments and lights out at 21:00.

During school, schoolchildren's routine, of course, changes. In babies, it changes as they grow: for example, there is a transition to one nap during the day. But regardless of the time of year, we always stick to it, thanks to which it is not difficult for us, for example, to do homework during the holidays or go to bed at the same time.

Plus, I forbid boys from things like climbing through the refrigerator in search of food, eating sweets whenever they want. And it works, although sometimes I have to repeat something more than one (dozen) times.

By the way, we have recently had no TV at home, and the children simply don’t have phones (tablets, game consoles). But they have the attention of their parents, a lot of books and board games, all kinds of transport (scooters, bicycles, strollers, etc.) and complete freedom to walk.

Au pair

This could be a nanny, a housekeeper, or a grandmother. This component usually involves additional costs (in the case of the grandmother, more moral than material), but it is worth it. Don’t think that I’m completely helpless and can’t wash, clean, or cook on my own. That's not the point. I can and, to be honest, I do this quite often, or rather constantly. But! If you save on this item, then you will never see the next item!

Our strength sooner or later ends, and so does our health after childbirth, sleepless nights and childhood illnesses. If someone can really help you, just accept that help. Believe me, you will definitely find where to apply your strength and energy if at the moment someone else washes the floor instead of you. Older children also require attention and care, not to mention a husband.

Time for yourself, that is, personal freedom

Oddly enough, a mother with many children (like any mother) is also a person, and she periodically wants to have her own personal time. This point is no less serious than the previous ones, and failure to comply with it leads to serious psychological difficulties or health problems.

Imagine that any ordinary person works on weekends, but you don’t. And then the lack of even a couple of hours of personal time every day can push you to the limit. Your personal time should be spent usefully. For example, I want to do dancing or sports 2-3 times a week. Just at this time, the boys begin evening football training in the gym, to which I take them, and the girls play at home and get ready for bed with the nanny. This way I immediately get pleasure and an additional boost of energy, and it seems to me that my body is happy about it. Other days I might run in the park early in the morning after I drop the kids off at school. I don’t spend my personal time going to restaurants or shopping. I'm not interested. If it is possible and the children are in bed, I prefer a book, a movie or something else educational or for the soul. My husband too.

Multicooker, clothes dryer and other helpers

There is no point in describing this point in detail. Suffice it to say that having such things in your home will significantly save your time and make your life easier.

Homeopathy, home quartz and hardening

I hate being sick, being treated, being treated, and when children get sick, it’s generally a disaster for a large family. But what can I say, and for a small one too, on a different scale, it’s true. Therefore, I adopted the position “prevention is better than cure”, and I try to follow it...

A little about using quartz at home. I have the most common OUFB-04 (ultraviolet bactericidal irradiator) “Solnyshko”, made in Russia. The optimum ratio of price and quality. We usually use it at home during periods of seasonal exacerbation of ARVI. Just turn on the lamp for a few minutes 1-2 times during the day, 15-30 minutes per 15-30 sq. m according to the instructions. Quartz is especially good if someone has already “brought” a virus home - you can immediately destroy it. We also use it with the whole family when treating ENT organs using special attachments.

At one time, when the children were very small, she was my only salvation. Many people are skeptical about homeopathy, but for myself I realized: it is safe, and it really helps! This is especially true for infants, when the mother’s heart aches from the fact that the child needs to be given a pharmaceutical medicine that both heals and cripples... With the help of homeopathy, we got rid of dysbacteriosis, rashes, acute respiratory viral infections, prevented colds, and used it for neurological symptoms and to reduce pain when teething, and even cured my allergies during pregnancy.

After unsuccessful attempts to “treat” diathesis in my eldest son using traditional methods, I miraculously found a homeopathic doctor and entrusted my child to him. As a child, I myself had a similar problem with diathesis. Therefore, I remember my condition very well - constant medications, ointments, hospitals... Nothing helped - until my grandmother took me to the village and began treating me with herbs and feeding me natural homemade products. Gradually everything passed. This memory led me to think about homeopathy.

The most important thing is to believe in this method (of course, having previously studied its essence), find a good specialist and be patient, since treatment can be quite lengthy. The duration is perhaps the only negative. As a rule, prices for homeopathic services are no higher than prices for doctors’ services in paid clinics. And the products themselves are much cheaper than pharmacy tablets. And what's important is that kids love it, so you don't have to force them to take the pellets.

As for hardening, the simplest thing you can start with is alternating warm and cool water when bathing. The children are delighted with this! Pour over them several times and finish with cool water. Gradually, the temperature of warm water can be increased, and the temperature of cold water can be decreased. We and our children are all tempering ourselves; the elders are already doing it on their own. By the way, we don’t wear woolen socks in winter and generally try to dress in a way that makes us comfortable, without burdening ourselves with a useless mass of sweaters and pants.

Following these simple rules will make your mother’s life much easier and will reduce the labor costs of maintaining the family. Good luck everyone!

To be continued.

Personal experience

After the introduction of the “Maternity Capital” state support system, positive demographic changes began to be observed in the country. This is one of the most successful projects in the field of social policy, which is why the Russian authorities regularly extend the program. In addition to this program, the legislation provides for a number of measures to assist families who decide to have three or more children. But what exactly are the benefits provided for the birth of a fourth child in a family in 2020?

Privileges for large families

At the federal level, the program to support such families is regulated; the latest changes were made on February 25, 2003 by a new presidential decree. This document contains a list of rights and benefits. Maybe:

1. Use public transport free of charge within the city and on suburban routes, if this is necessary for children studying at school.
2. Free medications for children under six years of age.
3. Receive school uniforms for free.
4. Receive a discount on utilities - regardless of the region, the discount cannot be less than 30%.
5. Apply for priority admission to kindergartens and schools.
6. Every month you can visit museums, exhibitions, cultural and recreation parks for free.
7. Receive loans at reduced rates for the purchase or construction of housing.
8. Apply for assistance in finding employment under a special program.
9. Apply for the provision of free land for housing construction.

The state is trying to separately regulate assistance to large families running farms. In this regard, the following benefits are provided:

1. Providing allotments.
2. Easing the burden of land tax.
3. Interest-free loans or free payments.

In addition to benefits, legislation encourages large families with benefits, which are divided into several types:

1. Federal lump sum payment in connection with the birth of each child.
2. Child care benefit, the amount of which increases in connection with each subsequent baby.
3. Regional payments.

After cuts in social sector funding, federal and regional authorities switched to saving mode. Despite this, for many families, payments from the budget are still an important part of their income.

As you can see, federal legislation in this case does not distinguish parents with many children from those who have only one or two children. Both receive support, but status has no effect. But the authorities of the constituent entities and smaller territorial-administrative units, in connection with the direct instructions of the President of the Russian Federation, are trying to create the most comfortable conditions possible for large families. For example, in a number of regions, along with payments from the federal budget, parents can receive another monthly benefit from local funds. Most often it is close to the cost of living in a particular region. But other amounts may also be observed. For example, in St. Petersburg, after the birth of a third child, a one-time assistance in the amount of 37 thousand rubles is transferred to the family, in Krasnodar - almost one hundred thousand rubles, and in Moscow - more than 170 thousand rubles.

Benefits and benefits for the fourth child

For parents who decide to have 4 children, the benefit amount will remain virtually unchanged. In Russia there is the concept of a large family, but there is not much difference whether there are three children in a family or four.

Maternity capital can also be issued for the fourth child, if it was not previously issued for the second or third. This is relevant for parents who had children before the program started in 2007, or for some other reason did not receive this type of government support earlier.

One-time federal payments remain at the same level, of course, taking into account indexation. Monthly benefits for the fourth child in 2020 are no different from those allocated for the second child. They amount to approximately 10,500 rubles.

It is worth noting that at the end of 2018, the State Duma adopted a corresponding bill, building on Vladimir Putin’s recent proposal to make changes to the family support program. But even here we must take into account that there will be differences from region to region.

Otherwise, the situation is completely controlled at the subject level. For example, a number of regions have their own version of maternity capital, which comes as an addition to the federal one. Usually its amount is slightly more than one hundred thousand rubles. In 2020, we should expect an increase in the amount of benefits for 4 children.

How to apply for benefits

If there are at least three children, and none of them have reached the age of eighteen, then in most cases there should be no problems with registration. The exception is some subjects where the percentage of natural increase in citizens is high. For example, in Chechnya, the Krasnoyarsk Territory and Ingushetia, local authorities are more interested in developing benefit programs for families with four or more children.

To obtain status for your large family, firstly, either the mother must contact the social welfare authorities or the Multifunctional Center. The applicant will need the following documents (there may be minor differences in this package in regions):

1. Passport of the father or mother, depending on who is applying for the status.
2. You must attach a 3 by 4 photo of yourself to it.
3. Marriage certificate.
4. Data from the home book indicating that parents and children live in the same living space.
5. Birth certificates for each child.
6. The form itself will be provided by social protection specialists or the MFC.

If one of the children has already reached the age of majority, then in this case a certificate from the educational institution where he is registered can help. Nothing else is needed unless the specialists themselves require an additional document (due to regional legislation). A month after submitting the papers, the family can receive the appropriate certificate.

Using this status, you can apply for benefits already due for the birth of your 4th child in 2020. Depending on the situation, this occurs in different organs:

1. In the social protection authorities or MFC.
2. At the Subsidy Calculation Center.
3. In the Federal Tax Service.
4. In the Pension Fund of the Russian Federation.

The procedure for applying for benefits for 4 children in 2020 is approximately the same everywhere. Usually you need to provide a small package of documents to achieve what you want. Here is their list:

1. Passport.
2. Certificate of a large family.
3. Birth certificates for all children
4. Marriage certificate.
5. An application for a specific benefit.

In certain cases, when applying for benefits for 4 children in 2020, other papers may be needed - most often they ask for a certificate of income, because families with high incomes have the right to be denied certain privileges.

Large and low-income family

Separately, it is necessary to highlight the situation with large low-income families. What benefits exactly are they entitled to if they have a 4th child in 2020?

Stimulating the birth rate is a priority in the implementation of the demographic policy of the Russian Federation. The most significant event was the introduction of the program in 2007. As we remember, at the time of the introduction of this subsidy the amount was equal to 250,000 rubles.

Over 10 years, the size of the one-time benefit for the second child has almost doubled - to 453,026 rubles. Thanks to inflation, young parents can now pay on average a quarter of the cost of a standard two-room apartment.

In addition to subsidies provided to mothers and their families at the federal level, regardless of the place of actual residence, there are also regional payments, which are appointed by municipal authorities and financed, accordingly, from regional budgets. Their amounts and payment procedure are regulated by local legislation; moreover, continuous residence in a particular region for a certain amount of time is often a mandatory requirement.

Types of benefits

As mentioned earlier, mothers of many children after the fourth birth or after the adoption of a fourth minor can count on payments from the municipality.

Subsidies are one-time, that is, they are paid immediately after childbirth only once.

There are regular payments, usually monthly, depending on the number of minor children in the family. Local authorities also provide, they are, of course, smaller than federal ones, but receiving one does not exclude the other. In addition, there are compensation payments that cover the costs of baby food, school supplies, public transport, utilities and even telephones.

The next child will be rewarded by the state at birth one-time payment in the amount of 17,479.73 rubles, and before February 1, 2019, this amount was equal to 16,759.09 rubles. If a pregnant woman registers with an antenatal clinic (up to 12 weeks), she will receive a symbolic payment in the amount of 655 49 rubles.

To receive money, parents must submit a package of documents to either the employer or the social service (located at the place of residence of the young family) before the child reaches six months of age. The amount of the one-time payment is annually indexed by the Government of the Russian Federation by the corresponding coefficient, due to which it increases, albeit slightly.

One-time benefit for the birth of a child in a military family paid in the amount of pay in force at the place of service. The amounts vary depending on the region and the specific area in which the family lives.

If a citizen of Russia adopted several children who are brothers or sisters to each other, then the state is obliged to pay such mother 133,559.36 rubles.

When a newborn is born, after his official registration as a citizen of the Russian Federation, a monthly payment is transferred to his mother’s bank account. allowance in the amount of 3277.45 rubles. This payment amount is determined for the first-born in the family. And for each subsequent child, including the fourth, the state is obliged to pay twice as much - 6554.89 rubles every month.

Children of persons carrying military service for the benefit of Russia, an allowance in the amount of 11,863.27 rubles. There are some categories of civilians, such as, for example, to whom the state transfers monthly benefits in the amount of the subsistence level in the region for a year and a half, on average 10,500 rubles.

Concerning regional payments, then everything here is determined legislatively at the local level. Each subject of the Russian Federation has its own child benefits and benefits, which are allocated depending on the state of the city or town’s budget.

Currently, residents of 69 regions of the Russian Federation can count on financial support from local authorities when adding to their families. But it is worth noting that in some Russian regions such benefits were eliminated due to a lack of budget funds.

In the Far East and in the regions of the Far North and similar areas, all benefits, both one-time and monthly, are, as a rule, increased by approximately one and a half to two times.

In the Yaroslavl region funds are allocated from the municipal budget for the third and subsequent children in a family where the average per capita income is below the norm for the given region. The one-time benefit is equal to eight thousand rubles, and it must be received before the child reaches the age of three. Such a program has been in place in Yaroslavl since the beginning of 2013.

In the same Yaroslavl region, there are various compensation and benefits:

• for the provision of utilities in the amount of 30%;
• Children under 6 years old are provided with free medications;
• free travel on public transport throughout the region, and the child’s age is not limited;
• reception first, etc.

In many regions, the authorities have provided for this category of the country's population the opportunity to obtain ownership, without any encumbrances. Families with three or more children are eligible under this law.

Another important point of social assistance for large families is simultaneous birth benefit two or more children. In view of the widespread trend in recent years, municipalities have provided financial assistance to parents of twins, triplets, etc. Depending on the place of residence of the mother and father, the amount can vary around 30,000-50,000 rubles. This is a fairly significant one-time payment, taking into account the financial and physical burden of new parents.

Working Russians can receive monthly payments from the state(from 6,554.89 to 26,152.27 rubles) intended for caring for children under one and a half years of age. If parents continue to work after the birth of a child, they can count on benefits, the amount of which, as a rule, does not exceed 40% of their official earnings over the last two years.

Employers, in accordance with Federal legislation, must provide one-time financial support to their full-time employees in the form of payments, the amount of which depends on earnings (thus financing the upcoming birth).

Types of benefits

The state budget has included an article providing financial support to large families with three, four or more children. Along with federal ones, there are also municipal benefits, which are regulated by local legislation, and the source of financing is the regional budget.

List of benefits by region, as a rule, is different, but there is an approximate list of the most common items designed to ease the material costs of large families with four children:

Such benefits mean compensation payments or discounts for the provision of certain services regularly, monthly or one-time. They are covering the costs of four children due to the rising cost of living. Typically, their effect lasts until the child reaches 16 years of age. Sometimes some benefits are valid until reaching adulthood, and some are valid for the entire period while the child is studying at a secondary, higher and secondary vocational educational institution.

Registration procedure

To provide the required payments to the parents of the fourth born or adopted child, you must contact to the social security authority at your place of residence with a package of documents:

Maternal capital

If a woman gave birth to or adopted a fourth child after the introduction of the federal maternity capital program in 2007 and never used this right, then her family is entitled to a one-time benefit in the amount of 453,026 rubles. This amount is frozen until 2020, the program itself is valid until December 31, 2021. regional maternity capital, then in most constituent entities of the Russian Federation there are such programs that apply to the third and each subsequent child in the family.

The purposes of use are approximately the same, but in some regions additional ones are added:

• home renovation;
• landscaping of a personal plot (laying tiles on the street, installing a gazebo, bathhouse, garage and other utility rooms, which was not included in the federal capital program).

The size of payments, of course, varies depending on the region. For example, in the Belgorod region the amount is 50,000 rubles, as in the Ivanovo region. The Smolensk region pays benefits to mothers with many children in the amount of 150,000 rubles, and in Yaroslavl the payment is 57,000 rubles.

The payment of child care benefits is described in the following video:

One of the main goals of the state is to improve the demographic situation in the country. Benefits, additional benefits and other privileges are provided by the state to support its citizens.

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Large families are entitled to additional cash payments and benefits from the state. All benefits and benefits are financed from two budgets at once - federal and regional.

The authorities of each region develop special benefits, the financing of which comes from the local budget.

Large families in most cases receive payments from the regional budget. If 3 children are born in your family, then you are considered a large family.

Not only natural children are taken into account, but also adopted children and stepchildren for whom you are a guardian.

Initial Concepts

Child benefit is special financial assistance from the state to families that welcome a new family member. The benefits are intended to provide social and material support to young parents.

The amount of benefits directly depends on the number of children in the family and their age. The payment procedure is established at the legislative level.

The benefits that are assigned to large families are intended to save the family budget. Thanks to benefits, parents with many children can spend more money on raising their children.

The state assigns benefits and allowances in order to improve the demographic situation in the country. The amounts of regional payments in different regions of our country differ.

Where to go for information

To clarify information about what benefits and benefits your family is entitled to, please contact:

• to the social protection authority at the place of registration;
• to your employer.

You can find out information from legislative acts and the Internet. But, more up-to-date information can always be obtained from employees of social protection authorities and local governments.

Legal basis

The main legislative act that regulates the payment of assistance from the state is Federal Law No. 85 “On state benefits for citizens with children” dated May 19, 1995.

Resolutions of local governments are taken into account. This information can be found on the official website of your city.

What do they give for 4 children in Russia in 2019?

For the birth of a second, third or fourth child, families are entitled to one-time and regular benefits, which are paid both at the federal and regional levels.

These include:

• assistance for a woman registering early in pregnancy;
• payment in connection with pregnancy and childbirth;
• lump sum payment for the birth of a child;
• a monthly benefit that is paid to the mother for 3 years after the birth of the child.

Classification of assistance (benefits, benefits)

There are two types of assistance from the state for 4 children:

• privileges;
• benefits.

The list of benefits differs in different regions. This is because this decision is made by local governments.

The source of funding is the regional, not the federal budget. But, you can familiarize yourself with an approximate list of benefits that are due in the case of the birth or adoption of 4 children.

It looks like this:

1. Monthly compensation for utility bills for living quarters. The amount of compensation depends on the financial situation of the family. The maximum amount is set by local governments.
2. Monthly compensation for using a landline home telephone.
3. Compensation for expenses for school clothes is paid once a year.
4. Receive free medications that were prescribed by the children's attending physician.
5. Receive a free set of linen for a newborn.
6. Free travel on public transport.
7. Free travel on trains and suburban transport.
8. Providing free textbooks.
9. Providing free vouchers to health resorts or children's camps.
10. Exemption from kindergarten fees.
11. Exemption from certain taxes, such as transport tax.
12. Possibility of early retirement (applies to mothers).
13. Possibility of obtaining a mortgage or conventional loan on preferential terms.
14. Possibility of receiving additional vacation days to the required annual leave.

The family has the right to benefit from benefits from the state until the child turns 16 years old.

Photo: regional benefits for families with children

Some benefits are valid until adulthood (18 years), and others while the child is studying at school or university.

You can find out the full list of benefits available to your large family directly from the social security authorities at your place of residence. There are two types of benefits:

In all regions, benefits are awarded for the simultaneous birth of two or more children. The amount depends on the region itself and the financial status of the family.

Design rules

Parents must contact the social security authority at their place of registration. You need to have the following package of documents with you:

• passports of both parents;
• child's birth certificate;
• certificate of income of both parents;
• a certificate stating that the parents are not registered with the employment center and do not receive any benefits;
• a certificate from work stating that the parents did not receive any benefits from work or social security.

A prerequisite is the registration of the mother and child in the region in which the benefit is planned to be issued.

You will need to provide a certificate stating that parents and children actually live together in the same living space.

At the social security authority you will need to write a standard application for receiving and. A government employee must provide a sample application.

If you received maternity capital from the state

Maternity capital is a large monetary assistance from the state for the birth of a child. At this point in time, every family that has a child can receive it.

The benefit amount is 453,000 rubles. The amount is paid in one lump sum. It can be used to improve living conditions, purchase new real estate and for other purposes.

Maternity capital is issued once. That is, you can only get it for one child. For registration, it is necessary to take the necessary documents to the social protection authorities.

Receiving maternity capital does not in any way affect other one-time or monthly payments from the state.

How much will they pay (amount)

One-time payments do not depend on the number of children and are paid immediately after childbirth or before. The name of the payment and the amount are presented in the table below:

A mother with many children has the right to receive a monthly allowance for her fourth child. For the birth of an only child, the state pays 2,718 rubles.

If the child is not the first, then the amount allocated from the local budget is twice as large and amounts to 5,436 rubles per month.

What to pay attention to

When applying for all benefits and benefits, you must pay attention to the following aspects:

The procedure for applying for child benefits and benefits in the event of the birth of a 4th child is no different from the one you went through in the case of your second or third child.

Upon the birth of 4 children, a family can count on receiving additional cash benefits and benefits.

Large families have special privileges in our country, as the state cares about improving the demographic situation in the country.

All your rights to financial assistance from the state, as well as benefits for large families, can be found out in the social protection authorities.

There you can submit documents for financial assistance and register your rights to receive benefits.

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